Emma Ugolee.
If a naked grown man joins naked children to play in the rain, would he have the right to anger that they had pulled on his scrotum?
Disrespect for us, can directly be of our own making when we do not realize the power of controlled access.
You can get a lot of reactions to mystery but one reaction it never gets is being taken for granted.
Unaware of the depth of potential for evil or good that you hold, men can at the most wag tongues behind you and never fingers to your face.
Do not be quick to think that it is advantageous humility to unveil your every element to sons of men. Your low and weak moments.
The number of minds who can handle access as a privilege without abusing it are very few.
So please, stop being seen everywhere, stop letting your thoughts escape through your eyes or mouth. Become the chief editor of the “observer” newspaper but never publish.
Learn to shock people occasionally and attract the ‘adunbelivit’ reaction.
Stop working hard at explaining yourself to everybody. Your worth is your worth their acknowledgement or not of it would not improve or decrease it.
With balance, do not mistake this for insensitivity or arrogance. You don’t need the wisdom of Solomon to see the need for a vault for your Achilles heel.
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